I watched Ugly Truth last Saturday. 3 words! I LOVE IT!!!
Obviously its a chick flick... falling in love yada yada.. but it was hilarious. And also a bit true... cos I kinda feel that I am that kind of person who is scared of the ugly truth. I hate being sad, I can't handle bad news, cos 1. I don't know how to react to it, 2. I don't know how to pacify it.
I am not going to talk further about that.. perhaps next time. I am still stuck at work.. The network is not on my side today.. I wanna finish this task off, so that I can have more time to do other stuff.
Yesterday was not the best of the week either. Kinda pissed off really.. I do have this impression that he (I am not going to mention names nor describe who he is) is the type who care only about his reputation to others. I mean to say, if I am not doing what I am supposed to do... then he might get the blame as well. I am quite disappointed on how he didn't defend what I have done, but he care more of what others are saying. I can slack off at times, but I think I've done a good job.. is that not what matters?
Neway, I've been meaning to write about the power of minds on behaviour. Kinda heavy subject, but I really do like to ponder about it.
I am only referring to a girl's mind, and yes you are welcome to disagree. I am not doing a thorough research, but more of a personal observation.
You know how girls always go in pack? It's true, we travel like wolves. We stick to each other. You rarely saw a girl walking alone! Very rare!!!! And to make things worse, girls like to share! Yes we do!!
Here's the thing about girls, when it comes to talking. We share and we agree most of the time. We don't really fight, occasionally there will be some 'Y did you do dat for?' and be horrified, but its very minimal.
Sometimes, I do hate to share with my girlfriends, especially on love or hate relationship! It's because I can be easily influenced by them.
Eg.1.... Say I am telling my girlfriends I have this crush on a boy. Actually its just a simple crush, the kind that you won't pursue afterwards. But somehow talking to the girls make u wanna go for it. Pep talk like 'U like him!!!! U should go for him!! He's the one!! Your kids will look super cute!! U guys look cute together!!!" In the end, I get into their words, indulging all the positive remarks, and get obsessed with the fact that 'YES, I DO LOVE HIM!!!'... familiar?
Eg.2. You just broke up with your boyfriend. You cried. Thinking why did he leave me? Talk to ur girlfriends. Sympathy talk. "Its not your fault. Its his loss. Better!!! I never like him anyway. He's a snake!!!" and this makes you angry and in the end hate him. Well, its not that bad, at least you'll move on.
I used to be those pep-talk girls. I rarely do that anymore. Guess I get matured or something. I refused to do pep-talk anymore, just because there is this one time I did something like dat... and I sad to see the outcome. I am really glad that it work in the end. But ever since that, I try to not be judgemental, but fair on my judgement. I reasons where I can, and say what's wrong when it is wrong. If people tell me their issues, I simply said, I will not agree nor disagree, but I will try to make you think it over.
Obviously its a chick flick... falling in love yada yada.. but it was hilarious. And also a bit true... cos I kinda feel that I am that kind of person who is scared of the ugly truth. I hate being sad, I can't handle bad news, cos 1. I don't know how to react to it, 2. I don't know how to pacify it.
I am not going to talk further about that.. perhaps next time. I am still stuck at work.. The network is not on my side today.. I wanna finish this task off, so that I can have more time to do other stuff.
Yesterday was not the best of the week either. Kinda pissed off really.. I do have this impression that he (I am not going to mention names nor describe who he is) is the type who care only about his reputation to others. I mean to say, if I am not doing what I am supposed to do... then he might get the blame as well. I am quite disappointed on how he didn't defend what I have done, but he care more of what others are saying. I can slack off at times, but I think I've done a good job.. is that not what matters?
Neway, I've been meaning to write about the power of minds on behaviour. Kinda heavy subject, but I really do like to ponder about it.
I am only referring to a girl's mind, and yes you are welcome to disagree. I am not doing a thorough research, but more of a personal observation.
You know how girls always go in pack? It's true, we travel like wolves. We stick to each other. You rarely saw a girl walking alone! Very rare!!!! And to make things worse, girls like to share! Yes we do!!
Here's the thing about girls, when it comes to talking. We share and we agree most of the time. We don't really fight, occasionally there will be some 'Y did you do dat for?' and be horrified, but its very minimal.
Sometimes, I do hate to share with my girlfriends, especially on love or hate relationship! It's because I can be easily influenced by them.
Eg.1.... Say I am telling my girlfriends I have this crush on a boy. Actually its just a simple crush, the kind that you won't pursue afterwards. But somehow talking to the girls make u wanna go for it. Pep talk like 'U like him!!!! U should go for him!! He's the one!! Your kids will look super cute!! U guys look cute together!!!" In the end, I get into their words, indulging all the positive remarks, and get obsessed with the fact that 'YES, I DO LOVE HIM!!!'... familiar?
Eg.2. You just broke up with your boyfriend. You cried. Thinking why did he leave me? Talk to ur girlfriends. Sympathy talk. "Its not your fault. Its his loss. Better!!! I never like him anyway. He's a snake!!!" and this makes you angry and in the end hate him. Well, its not that bad, at least you'll move on.
I used to be those pep-talk girls. I rarely do that anymore. Guess I get matured or something. I refused to do pep-talk anymore, just because there is this one time I did something like dat... and I sad to see the outcome. I am really glad that it work in the end. But ever since that, I try to not be judgemental, but fair on my judgement. I reasons where I can, and say what's wrong when it is wrong. If people tell me their issues, I simply said, I will not agree nor disagree, but I will try to make you think it over.
I see that we can be easily influenced by others, especially those who we trust.
That my friend, is my random thought of the day.
